x @suta_bombay "Everything that feels known or prepared for, constantly surprises with what life throws. But I became a warrior in this journey—not giving up, wanting to be better, do better, to create a better world for her—my daughter." shares @poojasrinivasaraja ❤️ "Being a single mother, there was a phase of longing for external validation. People came up with so many questions—"Have you tried this? That?" "Maybe you could’ve done this better?" It was tiring. Everyone's motherhood journey comes with its own set of challenges. For me, to be a mother at 22 and a single mother at 25 - that was something else. In 2018, Postpartum Depression hit hard - a tough and lonely journey. A silent struggle - no idea if help was needed or where to find it. The path still isn’t always clear, but with time, I told myself—I won’t give up. Becoming a parent wasn’t just biology—it was intention. It wasn’t “what’s next”—it was “what feels right.” Meant being ready to lose parts of oneself and still choosing to rebuild. Raising a child not out of duty, but out of conscious decision. One of the important phases and needs, was to unlearn the idea that motherhood comes naturally—because sometimes, it didn’t. Figured it out, messed up, cried in the bathroom, and tried again. Had to also unlearn the myth that mothers don’t break and we’re wired to do it all. We’re not. Being a mother or parent doesn’t mean having a superpower or knowing it all. Still human—trying to figure things out. Making mistakes. Tired from juggling roles. Failing, learning. That side needs to be shown to kids. They shouldn’t feel like we know it all. That’s where problems begin — on both sides. Independent motherhood means choosing not just to be a mother but to be oneself while mothering. Building a life where both mother and daughter thrive. Not shrinking for her to shine. Not burying dreams under responsibilities. That’s the life she deserves. That’s the role model she sees. I anchor her with love and lift our sails with courage. There’s no manual. Just instinct, grace, and failing forward. I’ve learned I don’t have to pick—strength or softness. I get to be both.And that’s where the magic is.”