We love men. We want to love men. But not like this. Not by parenting our partners. Not by managing grown men’s emotions while neglecting our own. Not by calling it “love” when it’s actually unpaid labor in disguise. bell hooks said it best: “Women have believed that we could save the men in our lives by giving them love… but we cannot do for boys and men what they must do for themselves.” Our new tee was inspired by that very truth: WOMEN AGAINST RAISING ADULT MEN Because women deserve partners, not projects. Because love is not a substitute for self-work. Because emotional maturity isn’t optional—it’s required. We’re done being the life raft for men who refuse to learn how to swim. We’re done being the therapists, the mothers, the fixers. We can guide. We can love. We can hold space. But the healing? That’s his to do. ——- Stylist @heather_rome w @penelopeortiz.hair Muses @rosemailuthaofficial 📷 @thestorkandthebeanstalk