When a child isn’t doing well, it’s not a choice, it’s a signal. Tantrums or lashing out send a signal that something is hard, that skills are still developing, or that expectations are higher than their current skill level. Dr. Ross Greene’s philosophy helps us shift our perspective. Instead of asking “why won’t they behave?” we can shift to “what’s getting in their way?” Maybe it’s emotional regulation. Maybe it’s problem-solving. Maybe it’s simply overwhelm. When we shift from discipline to collaboration, we help them build the tools they need to truly succeed. Save for when you need this reminder!