Heading the sister wound🌷 “Sister wound is the pain and distrust that many women feel when relating to other women. Jealousy, insecurity, cattiness, comparison, fear— these are all ways that the sister wound manifests itself in relationships with other women. Instead of viewing the other woman as a sister, we see her as an enemy, competition, or source of harm.  This sense of alienation is designed by the patriarchal society to keep women small and fighting each other, rather than fighting a larger system of inequality and oppression. Healing the sister-wound is the only way that we can reclaim our power, our phenomena, our magic.  If we lift each other up and support each other and value each other, we can help each other reclaim our power. The sister-wound thrives in darkness and isolation By seeing another woman, seeing her insecurities, and sitting in vulnerability together, amazing things can happen. This is a form of reflective healing. When we see each other without fear of judgment or shame or competition, we can more clearly see and accept ourselves. This is how we heal: by sitting in a circle, in ceremony, in community, and own the part of ourselves that carries a wound. The shameful parts of ourselves live in the dark and our subconscious; the subconscious can’t be healed until we bring our thoughts into the light and the open. By healing the parts of ourselves that are untouched and unrecognized, we can find lasting change in the rest of your life. And, we don’t have to do it alone. We need to reclaim our right to sit with other women, to create magical healing experiences with our own wisdom. We need to tell the girl being talked about, and the girl talking about her, that this is a safe time to come out, to take a place at the table, at the circle, because we don’t have to hide anymore. Via Reflective Healing” via @goddessmolding